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There’s an art to live i mean really live… some just sulk all their lives and some go up and down like the waves and then worldly different who always seem happy to us all.
Two conversations have led to write this and the title might hopefully someday be my best buddies plot to make it rich.

The art of living … seriously i have never heard,read or dreamed what Sri sri sri sri sri says in his books or classes or guest lectures or what ever they are called.
living is an art for sure… one small story by Paulo Coelho is :- a fisherman catches enough fish every day to feed his family and spends most of his time with family and having fun with his friends. A MBA degree holder comes to him one day and advices how he can help him make more money by catching more fish and ultimately goes on to say that after some years he would be so filthy rich that he could just spend some time fishing and rest having a good time with family and friends… the fisherman says ” but i am already doing that ”
that my friends is the ART of living.
I have met many people of different ideas of life most of them wanted to be rich to have a good time and  I wondered why…. for me and friends had a good time with 200 bucks and have the same kind of a good time with 20000 bucks, places to have fun are also mostly the same.
i am not saying that having an ambition is bad or making money is bad but don’t make that your only priority in life. like a career orientated women waiting to make it to CEO and looses out on making a family or a man waiting to get that promotion and hefty salary looses out on the beautiful girls that came his way 🙂
its real easy if you give it a thought you get 2 days off or may be just 1 day off from your studies or work ( these are the only 2 things people in the city do all their life) so make the most of it.

Even though your doing a good job or studying good you have the heart breaks and stuff in love  and then you forget how you once lived and sulk further… some tend to become work o holics and some alc o holics …its a vicious circle ( o ) to be heart broken for it takes you a long time to love  some one after that. its a circle hence you can not break out of it and science has an explanation for this sulking too ” the chemical released when you fall in love lasts its effect for a good 20 years ” so people sorry you cant escape a heart break but since its a vicious circle we can draw tangents to it atleast having one point of connection to it (heartbreak) that we try and learn from our past relation and make the new one even better.

Love its a emotion it is the same every time we love someone or something. A man in his late 60’s was asked you never married though you have your female friends… still why dint you marry…. old man asked ” do you like the ocean ” he said ” yes ” …which ocean the Indian ocean or Atlantic or the north ocean… he said i like the ocean not any particular ocean all are great.. old man said ” thats how women are..all are great every one has something special in them not just women we all do, i love all women the i have met and made friends they are all special people with amazing personalities” love is the same to all yet special to each hence its logical when we loose someone or have a heartbreak we cry and cry and cry and become these miserable humans that we are termed Crazy to keep sulking over a person who left us and is no more in our lives. Everything takes time and so will this sad emotion all that we can do in such a stage is to let ourselves know that it will pass away and believe that We want it to pass away. ( my personal theory : have bounce backs :P)

Stress is so freakishly over rated in these times we live in. One thing working under my father i have learned is patience. Patience is not just waiting for the right opportunity or in a negotiation allowing things to simmer down and then make an offer one cant refuse but also knowing that no matter what we do things happen only when they are to happen for we are interdependent in this world we don’t work alone. We can only motivate or help others to help us in return but we cant force anyone to speed up work ( trust me i have tried with our govt. officials it doesn’t work). So your work is not taking up speed and you are stressed over it i wonder how will it help…instead just go for a walk and enjoy the view even in a large city you will find a tree to sit under and if your blessed as me go to the beach and stare back at the waves they will teach you a lot if you still are stressed just call on a friend share a 6 pack and eat healthy till tummy full 😀

one has to realize that we are not all here for a purpose some are here just to fill in the gaps so that the great pyramid of human history stands tall.

Art of living is serious business with simple solutions don’t make it into rocket science.

And like crocodile dundee once said ” why do these city people need a shrink dont they have Mates”

wiserskydiver says :- have a beer shed a tear and go back home without fear